How to Starve The Beast in 1700 Words

Dear friends, 

A couple quotes to begin: 

“The greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn’t exist”—Charles Baudelaire  

“The second greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he is the good guy”—Ken Ammi 

My Prayer and "Light Me Up" 

Letter sent to all site members April 1st, 2020. Some fans asked that I make it available to the public so it can be shared.

 

Dear friend,  

My prayer for so long has been, “God, please don’t let me be…

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Unspoken Club

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Need A Change 

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Why I did Switch Therapy 

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Pretend Happy Ending 

I’m in awe of your love and support through this difficult journey of self and couple discovery through Seven Year Switch. Thank you. I feel your support surrounding me like an army of goodwill and it keeps me fighting.  What…

Detox Drink Deconstructed (Recipe) 

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Third Party Perspective 

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I'm Coming Home! 

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Experiment Thoughts

I can't believe we're already halfway through the season of Seven Year Switch. It's incredible to be able to see what the other couples were going through while I was having my own wild experience. One thing that catches my…